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The Road to Mental Wellness With Desert Rose

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For many women in their 40s and early 50s, unexpected mood

changes, anxiety, or depression can feel confusing and isolating.

“Am I losing my mind?” is a question countless women ask

themselves during this time. The answer is no—but their

hormones are changing dramatically, and these changes can

significantly impact mental health.

Perimenopause, the transitional time before menopause when reproductive hormones are shifting, can make women more vulnerable to anxiety. This is common, and help is available.

Perimenopause hormone fluctuations lead to an idiosyncratic array of

physical and psychological symptoms, which may lead to new-onset mental disorders as well as affecting pre-existing conditions. Women with severe mental illness going through the perimenopause may

expect changes in their symptomatology and response to

treatment.

Acknowledging and addressing perimenopause

symptoms with lifestyle measures and/or hormone replacement

therapy (HRT) alongside relevant psychotropic medication leads

to better well-being and physical and mental health outcomes for

patients with severe mental illness. Owing to the complexity of

women with severe mental illness and the risk of diagnostic

overshadowing, clinicians need to be proactive in asking patients

about menopausal symptoms and inviting collaboration on

management between secondary mental healthcare and general

practice.

When estrogen and progesterone hormone levels drop during

perimenopause, serotonin levels also fall, contributing to

increased irritability, nervousness and anxiety. Higher levels of

cortisol, the “stress hormone” that increases with age, can also

create feelings of anxiety. Hot flashes, night sweats and sleep

disturbances, while all normal symptoms of perimenopause, can

contribute to feelings of anxiety and unease. During menopause,

it is normal to experience heightened anxiety, become more easily

nervous and have frequent mood fluctuations. Your family or

friends may notice these symptoms before you do.

Although women are encouraged to always discuss their anxiety

and perimenopause-related concerns with a medical professional,

the following symptoms require more urgent evaluation from a

doctor or other health care provider:

 Anxiety that makes it difficult to perform your daily routine of

hygiene, eating and going to work.

 Suicidal thoughts and feeling of hopelessness.

Depression during perimenopause and menopause is not simply

an emotional reaction to life changes — it is deeply rooted in

biology. Estrogen, one of the body’s key hormones, acts as a

master regulator in the brain. Beyond its reproductive role,

estrogen influences how neurons communicate, regulates the

release of brain chemicals like serotonin and dopamine, and

helps maintain the structure and function of neural circuits

involved in mood and cognition. As estrogen levels fluctuate and

decline during the menopausal transition, this delicate balance is

disrupted.

Estrogen helps increase serotonin production,

enhances its receptor sensitivity, and slows its breakdown. When

estrogen levels drop, serotonin levels often fall as well, reducing

the brain’s ability to stabilize mood and emotional responses.

Many women—and even some healthcare providers—don’t

connect mental health changes to perimenopause.

Symptoms are

often attributed to stress, aging, or dismissed as “just being

emotional.” This leads to delayed treatment and unnecessary

suffering. Women may be prescribed antidepressants without

addressing the underlying hormonal component, or they may

struggle alone, believing something is fundamentally wrong with

them. Understanding the perimenopause connection validates

these experiences and opens the door to effective treatment.

Perimenopause doesn’t happen in isolation.

Women in their 40s and 50s often face multiple stressors simultaneously: caring for aging parents while raising children or young adults, navigating career pressures or transitions, experiencing relationship changes, confronting mortality and aging, and dealing with sleep disruption from night sweats that compounds mental health

challenges. These life circumstances combined with hormonal

upheaval create a perfect storm for mental health struggles.

If you’re experiencing mental health changes during

perimenopause, know that help is available. Effective approaches

include hormone therapy, which can stabilize mood by regulating

estrogen levels when appropriate; antidepressants, particularly

SSRIs and SNRIs, which can help with both mood and hot

flashes; therapy, especially cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT),

which helps develop coping strategies; and lifestyle modifications

including regular exercise, stress management techniques,

maintaining sleep hygiene, limiting alcohol and caffeine, and

staying socially connected.

Don’t hesitate to ask your health care

provider directly about the connection between your symptoms

and perimenopause, and request evaluation for both hormonal

and mental health factors.

If your provider dismisses your concerns, seek a second opinion.

You deserve care that addresses the whole picture. You’re Not

Alone! Perimenopause affects approximately 1.3 million women in

the United States each year. The mental health challenges you’re

experiencing are real, valid, and treatable. You’re not “too

sensitive,” “overreacting,” or “going crazy.”

You’re navigating a significant biological transition that our culture rarely discusses openly. By understanding the connection between perimenopause and mental health, seeking appropriate care, and connecting with others who understand, you can move through this transition with support and emerge on the other side feeling like yourself again.

As always, if you or someone you love feels suicidal or that they

are in a crisis there is the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text

988 for confidential, free, 24/7/365 help. You can also chat at

988lifeline.org. Another resource is the Crisis Text Line: Text

HOME to 741741. The Crisis Hotline: 844-755-5325

Until next week, I’m Desert Rose signing off and wishing you all good

mental health.

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